Dom wrote:Do you believe the husband is the head of the household and has final say in all decisions?
(Chosen because I like pontificating.)
I've recently come to the conclusion that the husband is to be the spiritual leader of the household, in the sense that Christ (to whom the husband is compared) is the head of the Church (to whom the wife is compared). Meanwhile, in terms of things like finances, housekeeping, and generally who does what things around the house, the marriage is a partnership—it's simply more practical that way, it makes sense, and I see no Scriptural proof against it. In either case, there is to be communication between the husband and the wife, and it's not a "husband commands and wife obeys"; the fact that some people think like that is one of the reasons why I have severe trust issues vis-a-vis romantic relationships.
Dom wrote:Is there a song you're obsessed with at the moment?
Probably the Trans Siberian Orchestra's mashup of "Carol of the Bells" and "God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen", which is unadulterated awesome in an mp4 file. Also "Little Wonders" by Rob Thomas, because it's such a sweet song in one of my favorite Disney movies.
Kaida wrote:Grape or strawberry?
Strawberry! Strawberry candy is probably my favorite, and I
love real strawberries—they've got this great balance of sweet and tart that I just cannot get enough of.
Also, DISNEY:
Isaiah the Ox wrote:Who's your favorite Disney Princess?
Either Rapunzel or Tiana—I really love how bubbly and enthusiastic Rapunzel is, and how she's got a lot of grit that she has to realize through her journey, but I also really appreciate how hard-working and strong and determined Tiana is. Both of their movies are simply beautiful, and both of their princes are quite charming and handsome. ^_^
Isaiah the Ox wrote:Who's your favorite Disney Prince?
Gotta go with either Flynn Rider, for his sarcasm and lovable roguishness, or Aladdin, for his compassion for the downtrodden and righteous fury at people who use their status to walk over others.
Isaiah the Ox wrote:Who's your favorite Disney Villain?
I love Scar, especially because of how well Jeremy Irons plays him, but I also really like Mother Gothel, for how dramatic she is and for what I understand is a pretty realistic portrayal of emotional abuse, and Syndrome, because he's a really interesting deconstruction of stereotypical nerd culture and the dangers of not letting yourself grow past the bad things that happen to you.
Isaiah the Ox wrote:What's your favorite Disney movie?
I have like, seven. In no particular order:
Tangled: The relationship between Rapunzel and Flynn is a joy to watch develop, and both of their supporting casts are strong, colorful, and memorable. It's also just great to look at—every background is so intricate, like a 3D-animated oil painting.
Meet the Robinsons: Not only can I, someone who has dealt with anxiety and serious self-esteem issues, appreciate the "keep moving forward" idea, but the movie is so energetic and fun that it's impossible not to get swept up in a whirlwind of positivity and optimistic energy. Additionally, I think an unsung line from that movie comes from Aunt Billie, and I've found it to be really encouraging—"From failure, you learn. From success, not so much."
The Lion King: Let's be real, this is pretty much
the Disney movie. If you only ever watch one Disney movie your entire life, you can't go wrong if you choose this one. From the sweeping score to the beautiful and fluid animation to the iconic moments and characters to the fact that this movie helped me understand the basics of the plot of
Hamlet, this movie is absolutely stellar.
The Incredibles: This movie is groundbreaking in a lot of ways—it was Pixar's first full-length movie to star human characters, it was a CGI superhero movie, and it was a deconstruction of common superhero movie tropes, combined with an exploration of the mindsets of both adult and child characters that you don't necessarily get in a lot of family films. I love that Bob/Mr. Incredible, a husband and father whose power is super strength and has the build to match, is portrayed with a lot of emotion and vulnerability without compromising his competence, and Helen/Elastigirl is a strong, tough woman who is also a loving, compassionate wife and mother. The energetic ten-year-old Dash has to humble himself and accept his responsibility in keeping his identity hidden while still being able to expend some energy, while the wallflower teenager Violet comes out of her shell and recognizes her own capabilities and uses them with confidence and resourcefulness. This is an amazing movie, and I'm so excited for the sequel.
Aladdin: I like really colorful movies, I'll admit, but this was also just a really imaginative film (just look at any of the scenes to do with the Genie). Robin Williams, of course, steals the show, but Aladdin and Jasmine's story is really strong and sweet, too, even if I personally think they could have explored Jasmine's reaction to finding out that Aladdin was lying to her—just a line or two with an apology and her conveying her understanding of what he was trying to do would suffice. But overall, it's a great film that's incredibly fun to watch.
The Princess and the Frog: I fail to understand why everyone thinks Frozen was something groundbreaking—this movie leaves Frozen in the dust in everything but the box office. This movie had the very important theme of hard work and how important and rewarding it is to accomplish things for yourself rather than waiting around for things to happen for you, and yet it also balanced that out by pointing out that loving, meaningful relationships are ultimately more important than accomplishments. Additionally, this was a 2D animated movie made after rapid technological breakthroughs in the animation industry, and it shows—this movie is gorgeous. The soundtrack is really great, too.
Big Hero 6: First of all, if you watch the credits for this movie, you'll see that the production crew for this movie took actual courses in robotics, engineering, and other sciences portrayed in the film in order to ensure that they were done accurately, and it shows; Disney definitely did its research.
Whereas the future in Meet the Robinsons is very fantastical and whimsical, illustrating the possibilities that can result from not limiting your imagination to what's been done before, Big Hero 6 has a lot of very plausible science behind it used by people of both genders and multiple races, which conveys the very real and important idea that not only can science be used for incredibly cool things, its disciplines are for everyone, not just one race or one gender—anyone can contribute to scientific advancement. I also really appreciate the poignant theme of loss and how to deal with grief in the juxtaposition of the hero and the villain; the film has a lot of both physical and dramatic action, both of which are powerfully conveyed.
Isaiah the Ox wrote:What's your favorite Disney song?
"Circle of Life" from The Lion King, "Friend Like Me" from Aladdin, "Almost There" from The Princess and the Frog, and "I'll Make a Man Out of You" from Mulan.
Isaiah the Ox wrote:What's your favorite Disney romance song?
"I See the Light" from Tangled, "Ma Belle Evangeline" from The Princess and the Frog, "A Whole New World" from Aladdin, and "Once Upon a Dream" from Sleeping Beauty.
Isaiah the Ox wrote:What's your favorite Disney villain song?
"Be Prepared" from The Lion King and "Friends on the Other Side" from The Princess and the Frog.
it's not about 'deserve'. it's about what you believe. and i believe in love